Life is like a road....

I've gotten many emails over things such as issues with friends, families, and drama dealing with school. Well I decided to talk about it and try to help as best as I could. Now even though it's like 2 in the morning, I couldn't sleep so I thought this could help.

A guy emailed me about his issues dealing with three people: his wife, his sister, and his best-friend. He agreed for me to tell the story about it with privacy being used as I tell the story. His wife was pregnant with a baby girl. He loved her to death but was scared about what to do and what he should do. His sister, who he loved to death, was just so helpful and perfect as God wanted a person to be. Well when he decided to listen to his sister instead of his best-friend, his best-friend decided to take action. The best-friend decided to inject some substances into the sister's arm, thus making her really sick and sent to the hospital. When she went to the hospital, she was diagnosed dead and this sent the guy swirling down a dark road. A dark road where no light could be seen.

To make matters worse, the best-friend blamed all of the problems on him and committed suicide because he made her "kill herself". When this happened, he just collapsed and became overwhelmed with guilt, and sadness. Later on down the road, the wife had a miss-carriage and  now developed cancer in the stomach. Now when I heard this, I was shocked at what I thought had happened. I thought this wasn't true until he proved it by showing me documentation of the incidents.


I never want to see this happen to anyone, that is why I help. All I can do is give out advice and tell people to just gather their thoughts and calm down.


What I think about this situation is that you should sit down, drink some water, and write things that make you happy and things that make you sad. Even though those things has happened to you, you should never let the past effect your future. God has placed those obstacles in your life because he is preparing you for the future that has yet to come. Once you have overcome those obstacles, then you can accomplish anything. Yes, it will take time, but the question is this: When do you decide to get over the past and rebuild yourself for the future? Just don't keep focusing on what has happened, and focus on what you can do. You can accomplish anything if you just believe. I don't know if you are religious but just do this or at least try. Just pray to God, tell him that you need help, and ask for guidance.  I think that God has made me a person that helps as best as I can. I hope I could help this person and many other people with similar problems.


I hope that EVERYONE has a great day and night and if you have any questions or problems, you can send me an email (please tell me who you are and a reply email would be great) at thejapfiles@gmail.com. Well I'm tired so I'm gonna hit the hay. GOODNIGHT PEEPS!!!!


-The Jap Files
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